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Serving With Family On A Church Staff

I love my family. Life’s greatest moments to me are the moments I spend with my family. My wife and I both have a godly heritage. We were both born into ministry homes, and to this day our parents are still in full time ministry. The same is true of our siblings. I guess you could say, our family takes ministry seriously!

I remember growing up as a young preacher I would often say the greatest joy of my life would be to work with my dad. My dad is my hero. He is a great soul winner, pastor, and leader. A man of conviction and hard work. One who has a deep walk with the Lord. My father in law is also a man who walks with God and has taught me a tremendous amount about local church ministry. At one time it looked as if I would join a church staff where my father in law served and that would’ve been a great honor. I’ve not had either one of these privileges, but the Lord had an awesome plan in store that I would’ve never dreamed. He allows me to serve on staff with my brother.

When the Lord opened the door for our young church to hire its first Assistant Pastor there was no question in my mind who I believed the Lord wanted to bring to our ministry. Though I never would’ve thought, growing up, that Jared and I would one day work together, there was no doubt he was the best fit for our ministry. And how the Lord brought him to LBC…well, that’s another “miracle story” in and of itself.

When the news began to circulate among our friends in full time ministry many said, “It will never work.” The idea of working on a staff with family sometimes presents problems. But we were persuaded this was of God, and determined to prove our critics wrong.

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6 Things that Helped Us Cope With Our Miscarriages.

The last year and a half has been a difficult time for Kathleen and myself. Since March of 2009, we have experienced multiple miscarriages. The most difficult hurdle in this experience was the emotional struggles that were faced in respect to the loss of our children (Yes, I do believe life begins at conception. Jeremiah 1:5 “Before I formed thee in the belly, I knew thee…”).  There were moments in the middle of the night that I would awake to Kathleen’s tears of sadness, and there were times I even wondered if God would ever allow us to train a child.

One thing I have realized is that we are not the only ones who have experienced this difficulty, and we will certainly not be the last. In light of this, I want to share with you my heart in how we managed through these miscarriages. I recently wrote down 6 things that helped us cope with our miscarriages.

1. Stay consistent in the Word & Prayer.

Though this may seem elementary, it is life changing. How many times have we seen people walk away from faithfulness to God in the midst of their trials. It began when they stopped walking in the Word. Your hope will come from the Word of God. Psalm 119:56 says, “This I had [hope], because I kept thy precepts.” No matter how difficult this experience may be, stay consistent with your fellowship with God.

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